The girl you are going to marry is undergoing rejections as you are... and so did Christ.

You need to pray that you are interacting with her in a Christian way, but without making your intentions known by asking her out, you are not really interacting with her in an honest way, and that is not exactly Christianly.

You can never harvest without planting the seed

Friend zone sabotages your chance to a real relationship

To this alien, friend zone seems to mean an otherwise nice guy and an otherwise good girl faking a half-baked platonic friendship over a long period of time (months, usually years) while one side harbors hidden romantic intentions, presumably in an often successful attempt to waste their fleeting youth.

American Christian dating is awful. This alien is here to point out all their strangeness and errors. Seriously.